As a benevolent leader, it is important to understand that you cannot know everything about every individual in your team. While work may be the center of your life, your team members may have different priorities such as taking care of their family, spouse, children, or other personal commitments. It is crucial to respect their individuality and recognize that they have a life outside of work. Therefore, setting unrealistic expectations for your team to always prioritize work over everything else is not fair. It is important to understand their situations and appreciate them as individuals with unique lives and priorities.